My favorite Taylor Swift lyric is “we’re happy, free, confused, and lonely at the same time. It’s miserable and magical.”
I love it because of the accuracy.
Some people say it’s impossible to feel conflicting emotions at the same time, but it’s very possible.
You can feel happy despite receiving bad news. Free although your boss/teacher/parent makes many of your decisions. Confused even when you’re following an explicit set of instructions. Lonely when surrounded by people.
It sucks. It’s…miserable.
But also magical.
Because you’re human. And you’re able to feel things. Many things. How many creatures are this complex? Our brains are magical.
Sometimes you feel all the things. At the same time. And that’s totally okay. You’re not crazy. You’re human.
Embrace everything today. Let it all in. Take deep breaths. You’re still here for a reason. 😊